The interval game

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So during my hot shower time, I had an epiphany while I was pondering through the core nature of neediness between men and women.

Generally, most men are needy, because statistically, girls get most of the attention. If you opened a girl's tinder, you'll know what I'm talking about. Flooded with horny and desperate guys that only swipe right.

Anyways, I have come to realize that guys become needy because they get validation, that they are a worthy guy when they are with the girl. And girls play the "interval game" when they stop texting you for a while and such, to test you. If you think that you can't do better than getting that girl, naturally you will cling on to that girl like you're at the edge of a cliff. The interesting thing here is that you will pass this "test" naturally without even noticing girls doing this if you are in a surplus mindset, where you have an abundance of girls of a similar level of attractiveness.

So in summary, girls play this game of "do you think you deserve me? how do you feel about yourself? do you think you can do better than me?", by becoming distant to the man, whereas guys become needy because they want to feel validated by the girl's presence, or from fear of losing "the one girl you manage to attract by LUCK"

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