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Has corona lowered the bar for hookups?: deflation of the dating economy

 Usually, when there is an inflation in the economy, the prices of the goods skyrocket, meaning you need more "currency" to buy the goods. In contrary, in a deflating economy, you would get more "bang for your buck" if you will. So what has covid-19 done for the dating economy? Well I'm no expert in neither economics or dating(ok maybe just a little bit), but I would say that resources and opportunities has become more scarce, which would mean that we are in a deflating dating economy. It's kind of like when WW2 hit, and half the men were recruited into war, and in the end we were left with a lot more women than men. This would help the men in a dating economy. On the other hand, imagine a club with 9 dudes for every 1 girl. In this scenario, it is much harder for the guys to get the one girl. So now compare that to these days, when bars are closing at 10pm, responsible people are not coming out to party, people are wearing masks so you can't really tell...

A new concept : Feel talk

 If you have been following simple pickup, then I'm sure you are familiar with the concept "down talk". It is when you lower the inflection of your tone towards the end of your sentence, as to sound more dominant. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0mimfLeCn_0 Today, I am going to introduce to you a brand new concept, "feel talk". Have you ever been in a conversation where you were so excited, happy, or hyped up that your emotions were conveyed right into your words? This could be applied to every emotions, such as sadness, nervousness, etc. I believe that down talk is a subcategory of this, where you're conveying your dominant emotions through your voice. But if that is the only emotion you're conveying, then that gets boring fast. By being able to tap in to your emotions, and expressing that through your words, not only do you make it more captivating for the girl to listen to what you're saying, but also you create a more personal connection with the...