A new concept : Feel talk

 If you have been following simple pickup, then I'm sure you are familiar with the concept "down talk". It is when you lower the inflection of your tone towards the end of your sentence, as to sound more dominant. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0mimfLeCn_0


Today, I am going to introduce to you a brand new concept, "feel talk". Have you ever been in a conversation where you were so excited, happy, or hyped up that your emotions were conveyed right into your words? This could be applied to every emotions, such as sadness, nervousness, etc. I believe that down talk is a subcategory of this, where you're conveying your dominant emotions through your voice. But if that is the only emotion you're conveying, then that gets boring fast.


By being able to tap in to your emotions, and expressing that through your words, not only do you make it more captivating for the girl to listen to what you're saying, but also you create a more personal connection with the girl. She will start seeing you as a human being, as opposed to "another loser hitting her at the bar".


So how do you do this? Well step 1 would be to feel the emotion. It's gotta be genuine otherwise it will not work. Step 2 try to convey that in your words. It would be kind of like painting over the words on a book, but with different colors of paint.

Everyone has done this at some point in their life, so just look back to a moment, when you couldn't give a breaking news to someone and then you finally did, or when you were extremely emotional and talking to someone at the same time. Think back to that moment, think about which emotions you were feeling and how that changed the tone of your voice, and try to replicate that.


You can expand upon the idea of down talk, and have things such as nervous talk (can be good to show the girl that you just approached, that what's happening is exciting, adventurous, and spontaneous), fun talk, serious talk, you get the idea.



Sometimes when we look at game, it's easy to get caught up only seeing the sticking points, such as dominance or being "alpha". But that's kind of like only working out your chests and having chicken legs. Sure, you want big chests, but also nice abs and arms and legs to support that. You gotta be a well rounded person to be an attractive man. And for that, you can't just focus on one aspect of the game.

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