Essence of confidence
"Esteemable people do esteemable things" What is confidence? The old but gold youtube channel about picking up girls, Simple Pickup, says confidence is the key to attracting girls. And you can only gain true confidence from many trials and errors. Basically failing a lot. It is a nice simple generalization, and also very true, but I have my own philosophy to it. I believe that one's confidence comes from the accumulation of different aspects and things they have going on in their life. To give an example, things such as having a job or not having a job, having a beautiful girlfriend or being a virgin, being happy with life or being depressed, having just bought a new car or not having one, these kinds of things add up to how one feels about themselves. Also, it is a net of these things, so if one person was really fat and that was a -500 to his confidence, but had an insane amount of money which gave him +2000 confidence, he would still be acting confidently. If he ...