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Essence of confidence

"Esteemable people do esteemable things" What is confidence? The old but gold youtube channel about picking up girls, Simple Pickup, says confidence is the key to attracting girls. And you can only gain true confidence from many trials and errors. Basically failing a lot. It is a nice simple generalization, and also very true, but I have my own philosophy to it. I believe that one's confidence comes from the accumulation of different aspects and things they have going on in their life. To give an example, things such as having a job or not having a job, having a beautiful girlfriend or being a virgin, being happy with life or being depressed, having just bought a new car or not having one, these kinds of things add up to how one feels about themselves. Also, it is a net of these things, so if one person was really fat and that was a -500 to his confidence, but had an insane amount of money which gave him +2000 confidence, he would still be acting confidently. If he ...

Prologue: Collecting some player thoughts at the cafe

So I've realized that there are some fundamental truths in sexual attraction. Certain guidelines that will always lead you in the right direction. Here are some thoughts I had today while reading the book "Atomic Habits" and going over my Player diary. 1. Sexual attraction without touching. There are many ways to excite a girl sexually. Actually being physical is the easiest way if you can catch the right signs from the girl. However, I've come to realize that there is a subtle art to arousing a girl without laying a finger on her. Here are some examples. Staying relaxed and being playful in front of a hot girl. If you think about it, unless you are a homosexual male, it is hard to stay relaxed in front of a very sexy woman. However, over time and practice, if you can manage to stay calm and even witty with a hot girl, that in itself will make the girl excited. You can even try to catch yourself being nervous and try to relax yourself down. Sexual eye contac...