Players secret handbook

 If you have been following simple pickup, then I'm sure you are familiar with the concept "down talk". It is when you lower the inflection of your tone towards the end of your sentence, as to sound more dominant. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0mimfLeCn_0 Today, I am going to introduce to you a brand new concept, "feel talk". Have you ever been in a conversation where you were so excited, happy, or hyped up that your emotions were conveyed right into your words? This could be applied to every emotions, such as sadness, nervousness, etc. I believe that down talk is a subcategory of this, where you're conveying your dominant emotions through your voice. But if that is the only emotion you're conveying, then that gets boring fast. By being able to tap in to your emotions, and expressing that through your words, not only do you make it more captivating for the girl to listen to what you're saying, but also you create a more personal connection with the...

  When I thought of a clever quote, copying the quote from a criminal in the movie baby driver "you rob to support your drug habit, I do drugs to support my robbery" I came up with "people party to make friends, I make friends to party harder". And then I posted that as my bio on my IG.   But I was hit with an epiphany later on, as I was walking down the street. The quote was much more aligned with what Simple pickup has taught me, rather than what I truly believed in. I value my friends much more, and my philosophy when it comes to life and dating girls has branched off from what simple pickup, to my surprise. After all, simple pickup is just another group of guys who studied the art of pickup for years, and I have been entering years since I started practicing this art as well. If there was a white belt, blue belt, ... black belt, then I would be sharing the black belt with these guys, when it comes to just knowledge and experience. Hell I might be even better,...

When it comes to attraction from female to male or male to female, a large part of it comes from the benefits of being with that person. This is why men put priorities on physical characters of women (how sexy or beautiful she is) because this is closely related to her health. Basically, the more beautiful or "sexy" a woman is the more likely she is healthy and to give birth to a healthy child. A similar logic applies to men, but to a lesser degree. Women put priorities in other characteristics of men because they look for protection and the man's ability to feed the family. And these traits are not shown simply from how pretty a man's face is or how healthy he is. Health may play a role, however, the more important part is the man's social status, his power, and his dominance. And that's why girls look for confidence over other things in men. Confidence in men is like good looks for women. It correlates to various traits in a man's life, such as his soc...

It's not about how many times you get complimented or people tell you how amazing you are. At the end of the day, you only feel as good as you let you feel about yourself. Are you doing the things that earn you the right to be loved? To be love worthy?

So during my hot shower time, I had an epiphany while I was pondering through the core nature of neediness between men and women. Generally, most men are needy, because statistically, girls get most of the attention. If you opened a girl's tinder, you'll know what I'm talking about. Flooded with horny and desperate guys that only swipe right. Anyways, I have come to realize that guys become needy because they get validation, that they are a worthy guy when they are with the girl. And girls play the "interval game" when they stop texting you for a while and such, to test you. If you think that you can't do better than getting that girl, naturally you will cling on to that girl like you're at the edge of a cliff. The interesting thing here is that you will pass this "test" naturally without even noticing girls doing this if you are in a surplus mindset, where you have an abundance of girls of a similar level of attractiveness. So in summary, ...

When you become good enough (or lucky) you will catch your dream girl, a girl so close to your ideal girlfriend, a 9 or a 10 you get the idea. However, there are certain risks that come with dating this "Perfect girl". One of them is falling in the trap of oneitis, which is not wanting to meet other girls because you are beyond satisfied with this girl, and maybe even because you are afraid to disappoint her. This is a trap because when you stop meeting lots of girls, you forget how it is to be attractive in girls eyes, and become a pleaser for this one girl. You naturally become needy because now you only have one girl. You leave behind the way of player and leave yourself on ground zero. So you must stay true to yourself, to your player life, even if it means losing her. Date many girls, even if you don't really feel like it. And you will be surprised at how they will be even more attracted to you because at the end of the day you are being honest with yourself and wit...