The danger of dating your dream girl

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When you become good enough (or lucky) you will catch your dream girl, a girl so close to your ideal girlfriend, a 9 or a 10 you get the idea.
However, there are certain risks that come with dating this "Perfect girl". One of them is falling in the trap of oneitis, which is not wanting to meet other girls because you are beyond satisfied with this girl, and maybe even because you are afraid to disappoint her. This is a trap because when you stop meeting lots of girls, you forget how it is to be attractive in girls eyes, and become a pleaser for this one girl. You naturally become needy because now you only have one girl. You leave behind the way of player and leave yourself on ground zero. So you must stay true to yourself, to your player life, even if it means losing her. Date many girls, even if you don't really feel like it. And you will be surprised at how they will be even more attracted to you because at the end of the day you are being honest with yourself and with them.
Another danger is the fact that you are risking your tender heart to a heartbreak. Why ever go through that when you can harvest the sweet honey of sex by just being a player with many girls? Sometimes you wanna have strawberry ice cream, sometimes you want chocolate ice cream. It is what it is.

Anyways be careful when you meet that close to a perfect, or perfect girl. Stay true to yourself and Player on.

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