Simple life: a new school of art
When I thought of a clever quote, copying the quote from a criminal in the movie baby driver "you rob to support your drug habit, I do drugs to support my robbery" I came up with "people party to make friends, I make friends to party harder". And then I posted that as my bio on my IG.
But I was hit with an epiphany later on, as I was walking down the street. The quote was much more aligned with what Simple pickup has taught me, rather than what I truly believed in. I value my friends much more, and my philosophy when it comes to life and dating girls has branched off from what simple pickup, to my surprise. After all, simple pickup is just another group of guys who studied the art of pickup for years, and I have been entering years since I started practicing this art as well. If there was a white belt, blue belt, ... black belt, then I would be sharing the black belt with these guys, when it comes to just knowledge and experience. Hell I might be even better, who knows.
Not only that but, when I rely on these podcasts and learning videos from their project go tutorials, I am essentially making myself rely on them to date girls and what not. However, if I were to self teach myself, and improve on my own, everything would be within me. I would not have to rely on an external source to date girls. This would even boost my confidence as I would know that I have everything within me that I need. Of course, this may backfire, as I would put the blame of "not being good enough" or "am I even going the right path", where as if I was relying on SP, I would chalk it up to "I just need more practice", so perhaps it could be a double edged sword. But then again, the simple pickup guys don't look so happy now (I don't know about Jason) so maybe their path is not that all high and almighty.
I am thinking about starting my own school, where yes I have my basics based on the basis of what simple pickup has taught, but including my own philosophies such as putting more emphasis on giving value to my friends, and focusing much more on my own life itself and my wellbeing. Ultimately I'll be aiming for a win win situation for everyone, and setting up an environment where I'm happy, rather than just making a lot of money, and going for the girl who I can be happy with rather than just going after the hottest girl, which can be a lot like chasing the unicorn that doesn't exist.
Last year, my goal was to be sleeping with 3 hot girls every week, and I did achieve that and I was happy, but I felt that something was missing. A source of income perhaps. I was ultimately not very excited about what I was doing everyday besides my dating life. So perhaps what I need is to be content about doing something perfectly within my control, and then add dating life and other things on top of all that.
But I was hit with an epiphany later on, as I was walking down the street. The quote was much more aligned with what Simple pickup has taught me, rather than what I truly believed in. I value my friends much more, and my philosophy when it comes to life and dating girls has branched off from what simple pickup, to my surprise. After all, simple pickup is just another group of guys who studied the art of pickup for years, and I have been entering years since I started practicing this art as well. If there was a white belt, blue belt, ... black belt, then I would be sharing the black belt with these guys, when it comes to just knowledge and experience. Hell I might be even better, who knows.
Not only that but, when I rely on these podcasts and learning videos from their project go tutorials, I am essentially making myself rely on them to date girls and what not. However, if I were to self teach myself, and improve on my own, everything would be within me. I would not have to rely on an external source to date girls. This would even boost my confidence as I would know that I have everything within me that I need. Of course, this may backfire, as I would put the blame of "not being good enough" or "am I even going the right path", where as if I was relying on SP, I would chalk it up to "I just need more practice", so perhaps it could be a double edged sword. But then again, the simple pickup guys don't look so happy now (I don't know about Jason) so maybe their path is not that all high and almighty.
I am thinking about starting my own school, where yes I have my basics based on the basis of what simple pickup has taught, but including my own philosophies such as putting more emphasis on giving value to my friends, and focusing much more on my own life itself and my wellbeing. Ultimately I'll be aiming for a win win situation for everyone, and setting up an environment where I'm happy, rather than just making a lot of money, and going for the girl who I can be happy with rather than just going after the hottest girl, which can be a lot like chasing the unicorn that doesn't exist.
Last year, my goal was to be sleeping with 3 hot girls every week, and I did achieve that and I was happy, but I felt that something was missing. A source of income perhaps. I was ultimately not very excited about what I was doing everyday besides my dating life. So perhaps what I need is to be content about doing something perfectly within my control, and then add dating life and other things on top of all that.
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